Difficulty Conceiving

We didn't think it would be like this.

You and your partner have been trying to conceive for a while now — without success. Now what do you do?

The most important step you can take is to see a healthcare provider. If you have concerns at any time about your fertility, you should talk to your healthcare provider right away. In general, infertility is defined as being unable to conceive after a year of regular, unprotected intercourse if a woman is under age 35 (six months if a woman's age is over 35).

In addition to seeking medical advice, you may find that becoming knowledgeable about fertility issues will help you better understand any fertility testing and treatments you undergo. You and your partner may also find it beneficial to devise a Plan to guide you through this phase of your lives. Both actions can help you take control of your situation as you move forward.

This section offers insights on preparing for your medical visit and undergoing a fertility evaluation. You'll also find a backgrounder on some common reasons why men and women have trouble conceiving along with a worksheet designed to help you create your own Fertility Plan.